23/69. Chapter:
Sunan an-Nasai 2562 — Warning Against Major Sins
The Al-Mannan: One Who Reminds People Of What He Has Given Them
Hadith About Disobeying Parents and Reminding Gifts
Sunan an-Nasai : 2562
Sunan an-NasaiHadith Number 2562
أَخْبَرَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، عَنْ سَالِمِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " ثَلاَثَةٌ لاَ يَنْظُرُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ إِلَيْهِمْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ الْعَاقُّ لِوَالِدَيْهِ وَالْمَرْأَةُ الْمُتَرَجِّلَةُ وَالدَّيُّوثُ وَثَلاَثَةٌ لاَ يَدْخُلُونَ الْجَنَّةَ الْعَاقُّ لِوَالِدَيْهِ وَالْمُدْمِنُ عَلَى الْخَمْرِ وَالْمَنَّانُ بِمَا أَعْطَى " .
Salim bin `Abdullah Narrated from:
The Messenger of Allah said: "There are three at whom Allah will not look on the Day of Resurrection: The one who disobeys his parents, the woman who imitates men in her outward appearance, and the cuckold. And there are three who will not enter Paradise: The one who disobeys his parents, the drunkard, and the one who reminds people of what he has given them."'
Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 2562In-book reference : Book 23, Hadith 128English translation : Vol. 3, Book 23, Hadith 2563
Summary of Sunan an-Nasai Hadith 2562
This hadith about major sins names several acts that carry a severe warning. It mentions disobeying parents, a woman imitating men in outward appearance, the cuckold, the drunkard, and the one who reminds people of what he has given them. The wording is strong, so the explanation should stay close to the text. One clear lesson is that Islam does not only look at giving; it also looks at the manners after giving. Reminding people of gifts can hurt them and spoil the spirit of charity. The hadith also warns against actions that damage family duty, modest behavior, and moral responsibility.
What we learn from this hadith
- Disobeying parents is mentioned with a severe warning.
- Giving should not be followed by reminders that hurt the receiver.
- Drunkenness is named among serious sins in this narration.
- Outward behavior and family responsibility matter in Islamic ethics.
