31/1. Chapter:
Sunan an-Nasai 3687 — Fairness to Children
Different Versions Of The Report Of Nu'man Bin Bashir Concerning Presents
Treat Your Children Fairly: A Repeated Prophetic Command
Sunan an-Nasai : 3687
Sunan an-NasaiHadith Number 3687
أَخْبَرَنَا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ حَاجِبِ بْنِ الْمُفَضَّلِ بْنِ الْمُهَلَّبِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ النُّعْمَانَ بْنَ بَشِيرٍ، يَخْطُبُ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " اعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ أَبْنَائِكُمُ اعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ أَبْنَائِكُمْ " .
An-Nu'man bin Bashir Narrated from:
An-Nu'man bin Bashir delivered a Khutbah and said: "The Messenger of Allah said: 'Treat your children fairly, treat your children fairly.'"
Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3687In-book reference : Book 31, Hadith 16English translation : Vol. 4, Book 31, Hadith 3717
Summary of Sunan an-Nasai Hadith 3687
This Hadith gives one of the clearest statements about fairness to children. An-Nu'man bin Bashir reported in a sermon that the Messenger of Allah said, “Treat your children fairly,” and repeated the command. The repeated wording gives the message added emphasis without needing a long explanation. Parents are told to make fairness part of how they deal with their sons and daughters. The text does not describe a specific gift amount, a family dispute, or an exception. Its direct teaching is fairness between children. For readers searching for a hadith about treating children equally, this narration provides a short and memorable answer. It also invites parents to review everyday choices and ask whether their treatment shows fairness across their children.
What we learn from this hadith
- Fair treatment of children is stated as a direct Prophetic command.
- The command was repeated, showing that the message deserved attention.
- Parents should review whether their choices are fair across their children.
- The Hadith keeps the principle simple and easy to remember.
