32/4. Chapter:
Sunan an-Nasai 3703 — Taking Back Gifts and the Father's Exception
Mentioning The Different Reports From Tawus About The One Who Takes Back His Gift
Taking Back a Gift in Islam and the Father's Stated Exception
Sunan an-Nasai : 3703
Sunan an-NasaiHadith Number 3703
أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَلاَّمٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ الأَزْرَقُ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا بِهِ، حُسَيْنٌ الْمُعَلِّمُ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ، عَنْ طَاوُسٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، وَابْنِ، عَبَّاسٍ قَالاَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " لاَ يَحِلُّ لأَحَدٍ أَنْ يُعْطِيَ الْعَطِيَّةَ فَيَرْجِعَ فِيهَا إِلاَّ الْوَالِدَ فِيمَا يُعْطِي وَلَدَهُ وَمَثَلُ الَّذِي يُعْطِي الْعَطِيَّةَ فَيَرْجِعُ فِيهَا كَالْكَلْبِ يَأْكُلُ حَتَّى إِذَا شَبِعَ قَاءَ ثُمَّ عَادَ فَرَجَعَ فِي قَيْئِهِ " .
Ibn 'Umar and Ibn 'Abbas Narrated from:
The Messenger of Allah said: 'It is not permissible for anyone to give a gift then take it back, except a father with regard to what he gives to his son. The likeness of the one who gives a gift then takes it back, is that of the dog which eats then when it is full it vomits, then it goes back to its vomit.'
Reference : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3703In-book reference : Book 32, Hadith 16English translation : Vol. 4, Book 32, Hadith 3733
Summary of Sunan an-Nasai Hadith 3703
This Hadith gives a fuller statement about taking back gifts. It says that a person may not give a gift and then reclaim it, while the text names one exception: a father regarding what he gives to his son. The narration then compares the general act of reclaiming a gift to a dog that eats until full, vomits, and returns to its vomit. The wording combines a direct rule, a stated exception, and a strong warning. It is important not to expand the exception beyond what the text says. The hadith about a father taking back a gift concerns the specific father-and-son case named here. For everyone reading it, the broad lesson is to give carefully and avoid returning to a gift after handing it over.
What we learn from this hadith
- The narration says a gift should not be taken back after it is given.
- It states an exception for a father regarding what he gives his son.
- The exception should not be widened beyond the wording of the Hadith.
- The severe comparison warns against treating gifts carelessly.
