Al-Lu'lu Wal-Marjan 613 — The Book of Zakât

Hakîm bin Hizâm Narrated from:

The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, "The upper hand is better than the lower hand (i.e. he who gives in charity is better than him who takes it). One should start giving first to his dependents. And the best object of charity is that which is given by a wealthy person (from the money which is left after his expenses.) And whoever abstains from asking others for some financial help, Allâh تعالى will give him and save him from asking others, and whosoever is satisfied with what Allâh has given him, Allâh تعالى will make him self-sufficient." ( Sahîh Al-Bukhârî, Hadîth No. 508, Vol. 2 )