24/3. Chapter:
Sahih Muslim 1623d — Fairness Before Giving a Child a Gift
It Is Disliked To Favor Some Of One's Children Over Others In Gift-Giving
Fairness Among Children Before Giving a Gift
Sahih Muslim : 1623d
Sahih MuslimHadith Number 1623d
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا النُّعْمَانُ بْنُ بَشِيرٍ، قَالَ وَقَدْ أَعْطَاهُ أَبُوهُ غُلاَمًا فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم " مَا هَذَا الْغُلاَمُ " . قَالَ أَعْطَانِيهِ أَبِي . قَالَ " فَكُلَّ إِخْوَتِهِ أَعْطَيْتَهُ كَمَا أَعْطَيْتَ هَذَا " . قَالَ لاَ . قَالَ " فَرُدَّهُ " .
An-Nu'man bin Bashir Narrated from:
Nu'man b. Bashir reported that his father had donated a slave to him. Allah's Apostle (may peace he upon him) said: Who is this slave (how have you come to possess it)? Thereupon he (Nu'man b. Bashir) said: My father has donated it to me, whereupon he said: Have all brothers (of yours) been given this gift as given to you? He said: No. Thereupon he (the Holy Prophet) said: Then return him.
Reference : Sahih Muslim 1623dIn-book reference : Book 24, Hadith 18USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 12, Hadith 3964
Summary of Sahih Muslim Hadith 1623d
This hadith gives the family lesson through a question-and-answer scene. Nu'man b. Bashir had received a slave from his father. The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم asked what the slave was and how he came to possess it. When Nu'man said his father had given it to him, the Prophet asked whether all his brothers had been given the same gift. The answer was no, so the Prophet told him to return it. This is a strong hadith about fairness among children in gifts. It shows that the issue was not the object alone, but giving one child what the others did not receive. The lesson is plain: family gifts should be handled with care, fairness, and a clean conscience.
What we learn from this hadith
- The Prophet checked how the child received the gift.
- The father’s unequal giving was questioned.
- Nu'man was told to return the gift when his brothers had not received the same.
- The hadith teaches care in family gift-giving.
