27/51. Chapter:
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1981 — Avoiding Insults and Blame
What Has Been Related About Vilification
Hadith About Insulting Others and Starting Abuse
Jami at-Tirmidhi : 1981
Jami at-TirmidhiHadith Number 1981
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، عَنِ الْعَلاَءِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " الْمُسْتَبَّانِ مَا قَالاَ فَعَلَى الْبَادِي مِنْهُمَا مَا لَمْ يَعْتَدِ الْمَظْلُومُ " . وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ سَعْدٍ وَابْنِ مَسْعُودٍ وَعَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مُغَفَّلٍ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ .
Abu Hurairah Narrated from:
The Messenger of Allah said: "(The Burden Of) What Is Said By The Two Who Vilify Each Other Is Upon The One Who Initiated It, As Long As The One Who Was Wronged Does Not Transgress."
Reference : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1981In-book reference : Book 27, Hadith 87English translation : Vol. 4, Book 1, Hadith 1981
Summary of Jami at-Tirmidhi Hadith 1981
This Hadith teaches a clear lesson about insulting others and starting verbal abuse. When two people vilify each other, the burden of what is said falls on the one who began it, as long as the wronged person does not go beyond limits. The main point is not to start a cycle of hurtful speech. It also shows that being wronged does not give a person open permission to say anything they want. The wronged person must still avoid transgression. This Hadith about insulting others helps Muslims understand that words carry responsibility. The safer path is to control the tongue, avoid blameworthy speech, and not let anger turn into more wrongdoing.
What we learn from this hadith
- The one who starts verbal abuse carries the burden of what is said.
- A wronged person should not cross the limits when responding.
- Muslims should avoid beginning fights with harmful words.
- Controlling the tongue helps stop anger from growing.
